February 6, 2014 at 4:00 am (Memoir, non-fiction)
Tags: It Chooses You, Los Angeles, Los Angeles writers, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Miranda July, No One Belongs Here More Than You, PennySavers, The Future, The Future movie
Miranda July has written what is probably my favorite collection of short stories, “No One Belongs Here More Than You” and is the writer/director of two movies I really like, “Me and You and Everyone We Know” and “The Future” so I had high hopes for this book. Although there were interesting tid-bits in the book, I find her other work to be much more compelling.
The thing I really enjoyed about this book was the insight into July’s quirky mind and her creative process. The book picks up with July being stuck while writing and trying to get funding for her new, yet to be made movie, “The Future.” For some reason she decides she will interview one person who is selling something in a little newspaper called “PennySaver.” In this weekly newspaper, it’s free for a person to advertise anything they are selling as long as it’s under $10. So July picks out a person each week (I think for 13 weeks) and goes to meet and interview them about their life and what they are selling.
At first it’s a bit hard to get into because some of the interviews are fairly boring and trite. But then some of the interviewees turn out to be really bizarre and interesting, like the man under house arrest or the woman who is selling a hair dryer whose daughter sings her a Miley Cyrus song.
However, I think that some of the interviews could be seen as exploitive. Not that that’s what July’s intention was, but she interviews some people that one never reads about in mainstream media, the very poor who don’t have internet access and so are selling cheap things in a newspaper. I don’t think July means to exploit these people but it’s obvious she is not really from their world and is pretty brazen in some of the questions she asks. Read the rest of this entry »
January 16, 2014 at 6:27 pm (Fiction, Short story)
Tags: cheating, depression, dominican american fiction, dominican fiction, dominican republic, gender roles, immigration, immigration fiction, junot diaz, latin american fiction, love, this is how you lose her
As a queer white girl from Utah, my experience is much different from the experiences and lives described in “This is How You Lose Her.” However, I really felt the emotion of the book– the ways that we struggle to not fuck up in love and the ways that we inevitably do. I cried often while reading this book. I think I just really felt its human-ness; how random life is in the pain and the setbacks it gives us and the brief moments that we feel on top of the world and alight with love and purpose.
Although the book was over 200 pages I read it in two days which is pretty unusual for me– it really was that absorbing. The novel starts and ends the same way with Yunior having cheated on his current girlfriend with whatever “suicas” he is currently seeing. (From my understanding of the word, a suica is a woman-on-the-side). After his infidelities are exposed he feels terrible and does everything he can to get the relationship back, but to no avail. At the end of the book, Yunior’s best friend Elvis tells him that he should write the “Cheater’s Guide to Love.”
I never quite knew what to feel about Yunior- if he was a dude I knew in real life, I’d probably write him off pretty quickly as being a complete asshole yet in reading him as a fictional character I had quite a bit of sympathy for him. He can’t seem to not cheat and yet he feels terribly about it and is sent into deep spirals of depression each time he does. Read the rest of this entry »
December 31, 2013 at 11:51 pm (Uncategorized)
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January 2, 2012 at 6:18 pm (book club, feminist, Fiction, Graphic novel, LGBT, Memoir, non-fiction, Science Fiction, Short story, spirituality/self help, travel, Uncategorized, young adult)
Tags: best of books 2011, best of fiction 2011, best of graphic novels 2011, best of LGBT 2011, best of non-fiction 2011, best of reading 2011, best of short stories 2011, best of young adult 2011, Donna Tartt, Eric Puchner, hunger games, Joseph Campbell, Just Kids, Music Through the Floor, Pathways to Bliss, Patti Smith, Suzanne Collins, The Secret History
Friends, here is my 2011 year in reading! (Not counting all of the children’s books I read when I was a nanny, various zines, magazines, newspapers, online articles, and blogs I read.) I wanted to write a blog for every book I read in 2011 but that didn’t exactly happen. Out of the 31 (almost 32!) books I read this year, I only wrote blogs for 13 or 14 of them… Better luck next year I suppose. I had hoped to read more like 36 to 40 books in 2011, but that’s okay. In 2012, I am setting my goal at reading 35 books, with the knowledge that I will be in school and will not have as much time to read for pleasure. Also in 2012, I would like to broaden my reading spectrum and include more non-fiction books and more classics, as the majority of what I read this past year was either young adult or contemporary fiction. So friends, here is my year in books broken up by category. In color is my favorite book I read in 2011 from that genre, followed by a brief synopsis. Oh, and I also tried to include the month I read the book, (although the months may not be entirely accurate…) Oh, and I made a section for all the LGBT books I read this year even though the books are listed by other genres as well. Enjoy! And feel free to ask me questions about any of these!
Young Adult Fiction
Boy Meets Boy by David Levithan (July)
The Graveyard Book by Neil Gaiman (February)
Forever and Are You There God, It’s Me, Margaret by Judy Blume (February)
Crank by Ellen Hopkins (March)
Catching Fire, Hunger Games, Mockingjay (series) by Suzanne Collins (April and May)
Amazing! Highly rated by many “best of” 2011 book lists and not without cause. Many people that I spoke to about these books had to run right out and get the next book after finishing the first one. These books are set in a dystopian society in the future where kids are picked from each family to fight against each other to the death in a giant arena filled with traps. It’s the government’s fucked up way of keeping control of the people. We follow the heroine, Katniss, as she is chosen to be one of those who fights in the arena and how she comes to win “the games” as they are called. Thrilling and a must read if you are into young adult fiction or dystopian fiction. Disclaimer: The third book isn’t quite as good as the first two.
Uglies/Pretties trilogy (series) by Scott Westerfeld (April-July)
Matched by Allie Condie (December)
The Absolutely True Diary of a Part Time Indian by Sherman Alexie (August)
Empress of The World (March)
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November 30, 2011 at 1:04 am (LGBT, non-fiction, Uncategorized)
Tags: Cusset, Francois Cusset, French canon, French literary canon, French queer, gay literature, gay sex, homosexual, queer, queer literature, queer sex, queer studies, queer theory
In his new book, Francois Cusset says that: “We need to learn to take the text, turn it over, penetrate it, play with its sex, slip ours into it, follow it to the end of its fine ambivalence, and force it along the way to assume a position.” Finally a writer who shares the same queer biblio-lust as myself! With “The Inverted Gaze” Cusset presents a new addition to the study of queer theory, dissecting the French literary classics from the point of view of what Cusset calls a “QC” or queer critic.
It must be noted that this is not a book for the faint of heart and is a highly academic read. I have read a few authors who belong to the French canon that Cusset discusses, (most notably Proust and Balzac) but I was not nearly as familiar as I would like to be with the authors and works discussed. I think this book would be most enjoyed by someone who is well versed in the French literary canon. I could also see it being a valuable resource in an academic setting for a class about queer theory, especially in regards to French texts.
The subject of theory can be somewhat dry but Cusset queers his discussion of theory by inserting such metaphors as the use of glory holes to illustrate what it means to look at literature through a queer lens. He says “We are looking for the details that have been ignored, but then take on the sudden tumescent vigor of that which passes through the glory hole.”
One of the things I found most fascinating about the book was Cusset’s take on what makes a work of literature queer. Rather than focusing on what is explicitly queer such as the actual acts of sodomy or lesbian affection, Cusset says that being queer is about the loss of the self, “the art of being where nothing awaits you” and that “the queer approach… loudly proclaims lack of definition as its major virtue.” One of the French authors that Cusset discusses is Baudelaire who has a quote which I particularly enjoyed: “To fuck is to aspire to enter another, whereas the artist never leaves himself.” (from “My Heart Laid Bare”).
Particularly interesting was Cusset’s pondering of what makes queer sex queer: “…The multitude of sophisticated caresses not involving penetration, not to mention the ecstatic pain of unfulfillment– and “To keep inside oneself, at the tip of the penis or the base of the perineum, that primal itch without trying to scratch it (or destroy it) with a harmony of bodies, with the illusion of another: that is the program of queer erotics, perisexual or even masturbatory; a painful caress…”
I also appreciated Cusset’s discussion of what makes for a queer reading of a work rather than a more traditional gay or LGBT interpretation. Cusset says that a traditional gay approach looks at what is most easily understood as being overtly gay and attempts to put it in the category of hetero-normativity while a queer approach to literature looks at what is seedy and underlying in a text, what is inferred and undefined as opposed to the observable and plain. He says that traditional gay studies try “to establish a homo counter-corpus, as canonic in the end as the official corpus” whereas queer studies “does not limit its field of investigation to any pre-established criteria, explicit thematic, or author biography, preferring not the celebration of difference, but rather the insinuation of constant doubt, and the political, playful, and insatiable erosion of the usual borders between homo and hetero.”
Altogether a highly intriguing and academic text which left me pondering over such sentences as: “A finger in your nose, as Roquentin could tell us, is sometimes richer in queer meaning than an entire session of fist fucking.” Amen!
August 25, 2011 at 7:37 pm (Graphic novel, LGBT, Memoir)
Tags: Kiss & Tell, Kiss and Tell, Kiss and Tell: A Romantic Resume, Mari Naomi, Michelle Tea, Sister Spit
I first heard about Mari Naomi through Sister Spit, a group of feminist and queer writers lead by Michelle Tea who travel and read their work. I love graphic novels so I was excited that Sister Spit had chosen to feature Mari Naomi, a bay area comic book artist. Kiss and Tell is Mari Naomi’s first graphic novel and is also one of the most interesting graphic novels I’ve read in a while. I would highly recommend it to any who are fans of Michelle Tea.
The books content is pretty much described in the title and is a catalogue of all Mari’s romantic and sexual encounters between ages 5 and 22. She includes stories of silly childhood infatuation along the lines of “if you show me yours I’ll show you mine.” However, the book later becomes more serious as she illustrates the thrill, heartache, and experimentation of her later relationships. While the events in the book may be shocking to some, she exposes her encounters in a very honest and matter of fact fashion. This is something I appreciated, because it just notes her encounters for what they are, without judgment. The book contains a very intimate portrayal of Mari’s experiences which include losing her virginity, having an abortion, her first love being sent to jail, and also follows her experimentation with women and with open relationships.
Although many will not have quite the experience that Mari had as a teenager, I think the book is easily relatable because of its themes of first love, first lust, and first major heartache. Its descriptions of what it is like to be young are also right on point with the recklessness, thrill and naivety of being young and feeling bulletproof.
Raised by traditional Japanese American parents, Mari rebels and as a teen even runs away from home. She quits high school and moves in with her boyfriend until he is sent to jail. She experiments with drugs and drinks and questions her identity. One thing I appreciated about the book is her feminist stance on her sexuality. She doesn’t seem to regret or feel guilt about her many sexual encounters and sex is a topic in the book that Mari is empowered by and chooses. Some of her experiences are merely hook ups or make outs but the two main stories in the graphic novel tackle her experiences with falling in love.
The only thing that left me dissatisfied about this graphic novel was its ending. She breaks up with her long-term, live in relationship and moves away. At the end is a drawing of her with descriptions of what she has become, including married and monogamous. I would be interested to see what she learned and what happened between where the graphic novel leaves off and her life at present. Luckily though, I believe she is working on a second book that may shed some insight.
August 18, 2011 at 1:38 am (LGBT, Memoir, travel)
Tags: classism, feminism, Jack Kerouac, Michelle Tea, On the Road, Passionate Mistakes, prostitution, rent girl, sexism, Valencia
Michelle Tea is now well-known for being a San Francisco based writer with works based on the city such as the infamous queer novel Valencia. However, Passionate Mistakes is from a much earlier time in Michelle Tea’s life when she was a goth high school kid who lived in Chelsea, a suburb of Boston. It follows her through her teenage years and early twenties in Provincetown and ends with her move to Tucson, Arizona. This is Michelle’s experience with growing up but it is also contrasted with the larger story of our generation of queers as well as the new generation of feminism.
The memoir follows Michelle through various expressions of sexual orientation and identity. At the beginning of the book, she starts out as a straight girl who endures boring and awful sex with her boyfriend. She then explores a little bit further and starts to hook up with girls while still having a boyfriend. Finally, she comes out with the courage to let her boyfriend go and starts dating women intentionally. She explores open relationships and is in and out of love triangles and finally has a long-term girlfriend. And all of this is told with the (intricate) innocence of a Michelle who existed in a time before she even knew what the terms “butch” and “femme” meant and way before she was known as a queer icon of our generation.
The last part of the book chronicles Michelle’s relationship with her prostitute girlfriend, a career which Michelle also chooses to pursue. Some of Michelle Tea’s experience as a prostitute is chronicled in Rent Girl, her graphic novel which I would highly recommend. From my understanding she became a prostitute not really because she needed the money but mainly out of her desire to alleviate boredom and lead an unconventional life.
I think Passionate Mistakes is a book that many can relate to because in some sense I think we all have the desire to both find ourselves (Michelle coming out as a lesbian) and the desire to lose ourselves (Michelle choosing to prostitute, even though she loathes it). I think sometimes that we learn just as much in losing ourselves as we do in finding ourselves. I can appreciate this duality and often find myself living inside the duplicity of lost/found, broken/unbroken, bored/entertained, fulfilled/nihilistic. Although sometimes being lost can damage I think surrendering to uncertainty and mystery is sometimes necessary in life. Read the rest of this entry »
May 20, 2011 at 5:48 pm (LGBT, Memoir)
Tags: Ally McBeal, Anorexia, Bulimia, Ellen Degeneres, Portia de Rossi, Unbearable Lightness
When Ellen DeGeneres started seeing someone new a few years back, all I knew about this person, Portia de Rossi, is that she was the fierce icy blond on Ally McBeal. I used to watch Ally McBeal with my Mom back in the day, as silly as the show was. I later found out she also had a character on Arrested Development. I’ve since read articles in various magazines about how happy she is to be married to Ellen. In these brief glimpses of Portia de Rossi, I never would have guessed that she had a severe struggle with coming out as a lesbian and an even worse struggle with anorexia and bulimia which almost killed her.
Unbearable Lightness talks about de Rossi’s dark past, being an early 20 something newly in Hollywood from Australia and her downward spiral into anorexia. Portia de Rossi really surprised me as a writer. She is very poetic in her descriptions and the story she is weaving becomes completely engrossing. We can actually watch the subject, de Rossi, become consumed by her illness to the point in which all she thinks and obsesses about is food and her weight. She feels an intense pressure to be perfect, having just scored a major role on a hit TV show, Ally McBeal. She actually does not talk too much about the show though except how much she hated it and how the actors or actresses on the show barely spoke to one another outside of shooting a scene.
Portia de Rossi also speaks about how hard it was to be this person who was supposed to the object of mens desires when inside she was a lesbian, afraid to come out in an industry that almost destroyed the career of someone whom she had really admired, her later wife, Ellen Degeneres. At the same time de Rossi was terrified that someone would find out that she was a lesbian, part of her battle with anorexia was caused by that same issue, not feeling like she could come out and be herself. Read the rest of this entry »
May 10, 2011 at 1:02 am (Fiction, Memoir, Short story)
Tags: Augusten Burroughs, David Sedaris, love, Magical thinking, Running with Scissors, When You are Engulfed in Flames
I enjoyed Magical Thinking by Augusten Burroughs and was entertained but didn’t think it was one of his best books. It felt kind of like the book was written because the author already had a book contract and had obligations to fulfill. I also had this feeling about David Sedaris’s book When You are Engulfed in Flames. While I have loved things that both of these authors have written and think they’re both clever and witty with interesting perspectives on life, I don’t think When You are Engulfed in Flames would make me a Sedaris fan and I don’t think reading Magical Thinking would make me a Burroughs fan.
However, I really did enjoy this books and was entertained by it for a little while. I did enjoy the quips of memoir in Magical Thinking though they’re not as clever or neurotic as his other works. I think the most interesting thing about this book was seeing Burroughs neurotic perspective 0n life and how his fucked up childhood has caused him to deal with ordinary events such as getting his boyfriend an iron at K-Mart. (Or more extraordinary events such as when he had to go to court for housekeeping fees and paid his housekeeper $900 dollars all in pennies). Read the rest of this entry »
May 4, 2011 at 1:42 am (Fiction, Science Fiction, young adult)
Tags: dystopia, Dystopian fiction, Pretties, Scott Westerfeld, Uglies
“Everyone in the world was programmed by the place they were born, hemmed in by their beliefs, but you had to at least try to grow your own brain.”- Scott Westerfeld (Pretties)
Pretties is book 2 of the Uglies series written by Scott Westerfeld. (Find out more about Uglies through my blogpost here.)
I found this book entertaining although not terrible emotionally or intellectually dense. However, it’s a fun read and is a great story full of creative ideas about what a dystopian society might look like. It’s a young adult book and something that I think teenagers who are into sci-fi (and adults who love YA or teen sci-fi!) would be really into.
Pretties start out with Tally Youngblood, our heroine from the Uglies, having had the operation to turn “pretty” and now living in Prettytown. It seems she has no memory of her life before the operation and the new pretty Tally isn’t concerned about her friend Shay, whom she decided to become Pretty in order to save. She also doesn’t seem concerned about or even able to remember clearly her time in the Smoke and her friends there. This is because the operation to turn Pretty also causes brain lesions which makes Pretties sort of vapid and easy to control. As a result, Tally’s main concerns now seem to be partying, breaking into a new clique, (the Crims), and deciding what to wear to the next party and how to cure her hangover. Read the rest of this entry »